what we are is our choice

A great Good morning and a warm welcome to you.

You are here because you have chosen this link and clicked ,isn't it. Its your choice, you must have come here on your own or by any other medium. You choose to be here and so you are here.

Well what I want to share in this writing is that, as what we are ,where we are ,how we are is all our choice .What ever it is we made a choice of it . It can be willing of unwilling, even if it is unwillingly , may be recommended, or forced, or pushed, its you who have allowed it to happen . Its you who got pushed or forced to make certain choice, actually its you who gave permission to others to do that. May be at times you are aware of it that it is happening and still let it happen or at times you are not aware of it. But its good to take charge of it when we become knowledgeable.

When we were children we were not aware of most of the things that were happening with us, because we din have knowledge. But now when we can understand things,know good or bad about it we can make right choices, Habits and beliefs that are not supportive , not uplifting should be given away and replaced with better ones.We can make choice , what is beneficial and not just look for things that are pleasurable.
But what ever you choose its your Choice.


Its always good to think one -twice about what we are doing. Is it that we really want to do.Even at times when we don have choice to choose it is better we choose a reason what we are doing it.There is a reason for every thing in this world isn't it.So make a choice to choose the right reason :)


The result of our choices is what we are today , and what we choose today will make our tomorrow.

Since you have the right to choose- Choose the right choice.

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Choose to smile

If not you then whom ?

Hello friends,

Welcome back to my Blog, Its nice to talk to you in this way. Hope you are doing well in the best possible way. Its you who make things happen for yourself most of the times, don't you think so? Every day duties and commitments and appointments, meetings, you make an effort for it to happen. So Great!!!.

Thank yourself for that, acknowledge yourself for all the things you do, and for all the effort you do for it. And also you try all your best to make things happen for your near and dear ones, to ensure all are happy and things are fine all the time, however in this daily action of making things happen some where, somehow we completely forget, what we actually want. How we have actually decided to live our life and what actually we want to do, or what actually we like to do and spend our time.We get so carried away by our daily routine that we hardly think there can be something else apart form this,or you would like to do. Its just lost, your actual dreams, your aspirations just gets covered under the daily routine.

But just think, think deeply if its not you then who will take care of your aspirations. Do you think there is any one else who would do that? Its you,you need to take charge of things as you are already taking and making then happen in your everyday,in the same way you also need to give time for your aspirations in life to come forth and you need to make it happen, as its your aspiration, your wish, your dream life.

Take a step towards it each day, give it some time, think about it, your aspirations need your attention, they are waiting for you to look at them.

Cheers,
Do what you really want and enjoy it?

ThinK GOOD

Thinking is such a powerful medium, it can make happen any thing. Yes, let it be any, thing it will happen. for some it might happen soon, for some it might happen later. But it will happen.

What ever we do, weather we are aware of it or not we are constantly thinking. Its a nonstop,self emerged pulsation. Well but at times when we get a chance to see what we are thinking,and we need to come out with some thing, its very important that we think Good, think positive, specially when you are thinking about yourself, about your dreams, about your career, about your wishes.

Its obvious that we have to think, we just cant do without it. Then why not think Good. we have a choice for sure, what we think about any thing or any body. we have full control and that's what we need to understand. Think good about everything, every situation, life will show you the right path. All that is required for you for your journey on this planet. All the sources of power and energy will help you and guide you. Thinking good always will enforce so much of positive energy within you that nobody will be able to stop you from achieving your dream. Its true. believe in your self and think good about yourself. Accept yourself and situation as they are and take charge, take responsibility to change it towards the direction of fulfilling your dream.

Thinking good about what you are, about your things, about people around you, will automatically brings smile to your face,which is another great and powerful magnet to take you further to reach your aspirations :)

Take Responsibility

Dear Friends ,

While walking on the journey towards our aspirations , one crucial point to consider is taking responsibility.Responsibility of what?Responsibility of what you are now and what we want to be, and also the responsibility of the path and decisions that we take along the way.

We have the tendency to blame other for our situations, we always say that, this happened to me because of you , because of him , because of her , because of this because of that , well well well - pause for a minute and think about it ,because of him / her /this/ that affected you because you were a part of the situations , it was not just him or her , you were involve in that discussion,
in that fight , in that argument. It means you were equally contributing to the situation to happen.So what happen to you , if not 100% , 50% was your contribution for it to happen . Think about it. Its understood , are not in your control, not required , but you have your control with you , its required , don't let others control you , don let others actions tell you what you should feel. No you have the control to feel what you want to feel.

Just revisit certain situations where you felt bad , accused, cheated, forced to act , criticized etc etc. Just think what could have changed the situation to a better one , what was that one thing which you could have done instead ,which might have change the scenario. Believe me you will definitely find one for sure. But why it didn't happen because we don't take responsibility.Responsibility of how we act and our actions.

So take responsibility and enjoy happiness and lightheartedness always .

Keep reading my blog will share a lot of my personal experience.


Keep smiling , don let any one steal your smile , take responsibility of your smile.

Respect Your Aspiration

Hello Friends,

One more very important thing which I would like to share with you is that its very important to whatever your Aspirations your dreams , your Goals, are - RESPECT them.

They just didn't came in you , it has a very special significance why they are with you. Here it self it says and proves that what ever aspirations you have what ever goals you have , set to achieve they are meant to be only yours and hence you can definitely achieve them. There is no doubt about it. Your Desire to any thing comes from deep inside a sacred place within you , along with the knowledge of doing it , achieving it. Respect IT , Value IT .

Respecting your aspirations , your goals is respecting yourself. Let your aspirations be very high , people would say , you are over dreaming , so what its their thinking , they don know what you can do. Don't give away your aspirations so cheap. Does your dream worth the cost of just two sentences from a person who don have any goal ? Think about it . Your Dream , your Goal is very precious, Respect IT Value IT

Love What You Do

Hello friends,

Was busy last month with a new project and hence could not write .But one thing very important I learnt in last few days is that its very important to Love what you do , let it be any thing , any kind of work you are doing . I will tell you why , because it will keep you happy in the present moment , in the present situation , and that forms a strong base a strong guidance and a strong support for you to be on the path which you actually want to be .

When you are chasing your dreams , make the current situations a medium to reach it . Yes , instead of making a whole new way a whole new path , and start new things , there will always be opportunity hidden within the present and which is most important .

Hence when you love what you have in your hand to do , you get the same thing back from it and also lot of energy and enthusiasm . So being happy , will take you to your destiny .

Stay peaceful with the fire of your dreams live inside you :)

Water Your Aspirations Every Day ……..

For every Sapling to sprout as plant to grow it needs nourishment … it needs nurturing … and protection ……

You need to water the plant adequately to ensure it have enough water to grow .. both upwards and downwards . you need to nurture it by adding required manure , you need to protect it from getting destroyed , by any one , it should not get burnt by excess heat from sun …..  its so important … and you need to do it constantly ….. isn’t it ?…



In the same way you need to take care of your Aspirations , your Dreams , your vision of who you want to be …. It’s a matter of every day … you need to water your aspirations with your positive thoughts , your beliefs , your trust and faith … you need to nurture it by doing right effort to achieve them …. And you need to protect them from all unwanted sources who can suppress your desire to Expel with their negative intensions ……. You need to protect it by giving your blessings to it …. Acknowledging yourself for Aspiring for your Aspiration….

And see how the magik of these golden thoughts polish your being with the light of bright gold light ….. you feel great as you are walking on the right path … The path that YOU have chosen …

Cheers ,