Dear Friends ,
While walking on the journey towards our aspirations , one crucial point to consider is taking responsibility.Responsibility of what?Responsibility of what you are now and what we want to be, and also the responsibility of the path and decisions that we take along the way.
We have the tendency to blame other for our situations, we always say that, this happened to me because of you , because of him , because of her , because of this because of that , well well well - pause for a minute and think about it ,because of him / her /this/ that affected you because you were a part of the situations , it was not just him or her , you were involve in that discussion,
in that fight , in that argument. It means you were equally contributing to the situation to happen.So what happen to you , if not 100% , 50% was your contribution for it to happen . Think about it. Its understood , are not in your control, not required , but you have your control with you , its required , don't let others control you , don let others actions tell you what you should feel. No you have the control to feel what you want to feel.
Just revisit certain situations where you felt bad , accused, cheated, forced to act , criticized etc etc. Just think what could have changed the situation to a better one , what was that one thing which you could have done instead ,which might have change the scenario. Believe me you will definitely find one for sure. But why it didn't happen because we don't take responsibility.Responsibility of how we act and our actions.
So take responsibility and enjoy happiness and lightheartedness always .
Keep reading my blog will share a lot of my personal experience.
Keep smiling , don let any one steal your smile , take responsibility of your smile.
ok, that is true,, but how do you not not blame someone 100% when she turns gay after 9 yrs of being with someone and having 2 kids with them, having a good, loving r'ship with not many dramas, and then one day her say, "i think im gay", then 1 month later, comes back and say "i am breaking up with you coz i am gay" your response is this is f#$%ed, no matter how much you say dont let others actions impact on how you feel, but that only works to a extent , not everything is black and white, we dont live in that kind of world... as much as you wish you did, we dont, our world is saddly filled with hate and violance., chaos and disorder, created with force, live by force, and die by force..
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i can say with example,
i was assigned to project work in punjab.we gone to punjab as a team but while working we found the customer was not happy with demo becoz the way my manager presented.So in order to escape from the problem manager left us without informations and he returned back to home.
Then we are in-front of customer and it has become our obligation to prove the design and get approve.
So we did our job without direction from my manager and finally got approved .
what i am coming to say is i have taken responsibility where one has failed to do.
my conclusion is when things in ur control in which u can do ur self, that time u have all the rights to take decision.
I agree what gauri said.